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Places where you can take your cougar on a date

Cougar dating can be lots of fun, if you know where you can take a cougar on a date. Because a cougar is much older than you, you will have the problem that you might not take your cougar to a place where she feels comfortable. Cougar websites are much different than taking a cougar on a real date. Here some tips that you need to remember where you’re taking your cougar on a first date.

The benefits of going for a coffee

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Going on a coffee date is always best for a first date. The reason is that there’s less stress in a coffee date. You can go to any coffee bar for coffee and it is not as formal as when you’re going to another, more formal date.

Going for a coffee, gives you the best chance of just sitting and chatting without any guilt feelings. The coffee drinking is cheap and there’s normally no strings attached when it comes to any further dates.

A quiet atmosphere

A thing that you need to consider when you’re going on a real cougar date is the location of where you’re taking your cougar. You need to consider taking her to a place with a quiet atmosphere, where you can talk to each other and not need to scream to each other.

If you’re not thinking about the atmosphere of the place that you’re choosing for your first date, there might not be a second date at all. The first date is an impression of how the rest of the dates are going to be, and if you’re not thinking about what she wants or what she would feel comfortable with, you’re not going to have a second date.

Don’t choose the most expensive place

The one problem that so many cubs are doing is that they think that they should take their cougar women on the most expensive dates to prove that they can afford to keep their women happy. The one thing about cougar women is, that they know that younger man doesn’t have as much money as the men of their age.

And, if they really wanted to go on expensive dates, the women would date men their own size and not younger men, that still needs to make some money.

Ask her where she wants to go

Most men thinks that they should lead and decide where they need to go, when they are on a date. The problem is that they are making the biggest mistake in thinking this. If you’re thinking about asking a cougar on a date, then you want to ask her, what she prefers.

She will most definitely be more willing about going to the date, if you’re going to take her to dates that she prefers. If she feels more comfortable in a certain place, then she will be much more likely to say yes to the date.

Going on a date with a cougar can be hard. It is important to make sure that you know all the ins and outs with taking a cougar on a date. You don’t want to miss out on a date just because you didn’t think the date through. The wrong place will make her not saying yes to you again for a second cougar date.

Should be the sex on the first date when meet a cougar?

Sex on a first date? The thoughts on this topic for the majority tend to support a big, fat resounding NO!

The first date for everyone, is a chance to set a first impression with a potential long-term partner, and therefore it needs to be a good one!

We all know sex is a very deep act of passion and intimacy, that is heightened by feelings of love. Therefore, by most, it is not taken lightly, to sleep with someone on their first date. Taking part in this act, usually results in residual feelings between both parties, even though they have not formed a strong foundation for a relationship to be present. This can result in a sticky situation for both, as they are uncertain so early at the beginning of dating, whether they still want to pursue one another.cougar meet

At the initial stages of dating, it is best to have a clear head, enabling you to form a good judgment of character of the individual you are dating. However, having sex so early on results in unnecessary feelings to submerge and cloud peoples’ level of judgment, resulting in uncertainty of character of their partners and weak foundations for partners to build their relationship upon.

Therefore, for the majority, sex on the first date would be frowned upon. However, this does not imply that some people do not still partake in this act regardless of it being the first date.

I guess all that can be said is : each individual is left to their own strategy!